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MEDITATION
THERAPY :

Meditation is a way
of being, not a technique.
Meditation affects the body in exactly the opposite ways that
stress does, restoring the body to a calm state, helping the
body to repair itself, and preventing new damage due to the
physical effects of stress.
Meditation is best thought of as a way of being, rather than a
technique or a collection of techniques
We might say that meditation is really a way of being
appropriate to the circumstances one finds oneself in, in any
and every moment. If we are caught up in the preoccupations of
our own mind, in that moment we cannot be present in an
appropriate way or perhaps at all. We will bring an agenda of
some kind to whatever we say or do or think, even if we don't
know it.

How To
Meditate
The word meditation is burdened with a lot of religious or
spiritual padding in today's society. For the panic and anxiety
sufferer, I believe, it's best to put those descriptions aside
and just look at meditation as an exercise in learning to relax
and to focus your thoughts. Here is how I meditate.
Difficulty
: Average
Time Required : 20 minutes
Here's How :
1. Tell everyone in your household that you will be
meditating/relaxing on a daily basis, and that means you will
need to be undisturbed during those times. Unplug your phone if
necessary.
2. Go to a quiet room, shut the door and sit comfortably. I sit
on the floor with a pillow behind my back, leaning against the
bed. I leave my legs outstretched (they go to sleep, otherwise),
and I also listen to very soft music with guitar and nature
sounds.
3. Close you eyes -- relax all your muscles.
4. Breathe naturally, but (important!) make sure that your tummy
is rising first, as opposed to your chest.
5. Concentrate, lightly, on your breathing. Just feel your
breath going in and out -- I follow it, in my mind, through my
nose and out past my lips.
6. Every 3-4 breaths, my mind wanders, and I just look at those
thoughts as if they were butterflies, and let them flutter away.
Your thoughts will come continually. Don't fight them, just let
them go, and don't let them have any meaning to you. Then, come
back every time, to focusing on your breath.
7. Practice every day for 20 minutes -- at the same time of day,
if possible.
Tips:
1. At first I hated this exercise -- was too keyed up to enjoy
it.
Never wanted to STOP
and do it. However, with practice I came to LOVE meditation and
to look forward to that time of day when I meditate.
2. Why meditate?
Because it
teaches you to be able to fully relax. It teaches you to breath
correctly. (One explaination, as described on HBO's PANIC!, is
that panic sufferers do not breathe correctly when they are
nervous. They breathe shallowly with their upper lungs only --
and this causes them to breathe their own carbon dioxide --
which, in turn, makes their body think they are beginning to
suffocate -- thus, PANIC!)
3. Another important thing about meditation is that you begin to
learn to focus your mind and ignore thoughts. As every panic
sufferer understands, this is a very, very useful tool. To be
able to relax and keep your attention where it should be could
prevent a lot of panic attacks, eh?
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