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HUMOR -
LAUGHTER THERAPY :
Laughter really can
be the best medicine. Humor offers a brief respite from
arthritis stress and provides both tension and pain relief. It
has also shown to have positive effects for healing.
One of the great joys of marriage is the time that you, as a
couple, spend laughing together and enjoying your sense of
humor. Here are the benefits of laughter and humor, and ways to
increase laughter in your marriage.
Laughter is a marvelous gift. It releases chemicals in your
brain which can enhance your day and reduce your stress.
Additionally, laughter and humor are vital to good health.
Laughter is healthy for a marriage, both emotionally and
physically.
Benefits
of Laughter
• Reduction of stress and tension.
• Stimulation of your immune system.
• An increase of natural painkillers in your blood.
• A decrease in systemic inflammation.
• Reduction of your blood pressure.
• Lifts your spirits.
• Laughter and humor relieve tension, lift spirits, and bring
couples closer together.
• Having a sense of humor as a couple can help keep your
relationship fresh.
The Laughing Cure
Research has shown health benefits of laughter ranging from
strengthening the immune system to reducing food cravings to
increasing one's threshold for pain. There's even an emerging
therapeutic field known as humor therapy to help people heal
more quickly, among other things. Humor also has several
important stress relieving benefits.

Stress
Management Benefits of Laughter:
•
Hormones:
Laughter reduces the
level of stress hormones like cortisol, epinephrine, adrenaline,
dopamine and growth hormone. It also increases the level of
health-enhancing hormones like endorphins, and
neurotransmitters. Laughter increases the number of
antibody-producing cells and enhances the effectiveness of T
cells. All this means a stronger immune system, as well as fewer
physical effects of stress.
• Physical Release: Have you ever felt like you "have to laugh
or I'll cry"? Have you experienced the cleansed feeling after a
good laugh? Laughter provides a physical and emotional release.
• Internal
Workout:
A good belly laugh
exercises the diaphragm, contracts the abs and even works out
the shoulders, leaving muscles more relaxed afterward. It even
provides a good workout for the heart.
•
Distraction:
Laughter brings the
focus away from anger, guilt, stress and negative emotions in a
than other mere distractions.
•
Perspective:
Sudies show that our
response to stressful events can be altered by whether we view
something as a 'threat' or a 'challenge'. Humor can give us a
more lighthearted perspective and help us view events as
'challenges', thereby making them less threatening and more
positive.
• Social
Benefits of Laughter:
Laughter connects us
with others. Also, laughter is contagious, so if you bring more
laughter into your life, you can most likely help others around
you to laugh more, and realize these benefits as well. By
elevating the mood of those around you, you can reduce their
stress levels, and perhaps improve the quality of social
interaction you experience with them, reducing your stress level
even more!

How To
Use Laughter:
A recent study showed that pre-school-aged children laugh up to
400 times a day, but by the time we reach adulthood, we laugh a
mere 17 times per day on average! You can raise your laughter
level with the following strategies:
• T.V. and
Movies:
There's no shortage
of comedies out there, both at the theater and in the aisles of
the video stores, as well as right on your T.V. While wasting
your time watching something marginally funny may actually
frustrate you, watching truly hilarious movies and shows is an
easy way to get laughter into your life whenever you need it.
• Laugh
With Friends:
Going to a movie or
comedy club with friends is a great way to get more laughter in
your life. The contagious effects of laughter may mean you'll
laugh more than you otherwise would have during the show, plus
you'll have jokes to reference at later times. Having friends
over for a party or game night is also a great setup for
laughter and other good feelings.
• Find
Humor In Your Life:
Instead of
complaining about life's frustrations, try to laugh about them.
If something is so frustrating or depressing it's ridiculous,
realize that you could 'look back on it and laugh.' Think of how
it will sound as a story you could tell to your friends, and
then see if you can laugh about it now. With this attitude, you
may also find yourself being more lighthearted and silly, giving
yourself and those around you more to laugh about. Approach life
in a more mirthful way and you'll find you're less stressed
about negative events, and you'll achieve the health benefits of
laughter.
• 'Fake It
Until You Make It':
Just as studies show
the positive effects of smiling occur whether the smile is fake
or real, faked laughter also provides the benefits mentioned
above. So smile more, and fake laughter; you'll still achieve
positive effects, and the fake merriment may lead to real smiles
and laughter.
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